Month in Review // The Month From Hell – March

This month has given me more breakdowns than I can count.

So maybe it’s not the single worst month I’ve ever lived but honestly, it’s pretty high up there!

Between a car accident, still going through the mess of changing names, pain, oh so much fucking pain, a new doctor who doesn’t know how to help me, and an altercation I wish to just forget, I’m just about ready to hide under my blankets and never leave my room.

Unfortunately, that’s not an option and so I am sitting at me desk at work writing this instead.

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Month’s TBR

The Dream Thieves│✅│


The Surface Breaks│✅│

The Female of the Species│✅│❌│

Sharp Objects│❌│

Blue Lily, Lily Blue│❌│

Truly Devious│❌│

Khutulun│tatterhood│Agnodice│Te Puea Herangi│Moremi Ajasoro│Sybil Ludington│Kurmanjan Datka│Andamana│Mary Seacole│Florence Nightingale│Gráinne “Grace O’Malley” Ni Mháille│Rejected Princesses│✅│

Empress Xi Ling Shi│Hatsheput│Agnodice│Trung Trӑc & Trung Nhi│Fatima Al-Fihri│Bygone Badass Broads│✅│

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the dream thieves.jpgThe Surface Breaks│Lousie O’Neill│📲📚🏳️‍🌈♿️🌹🚺🌏📚│★★★★│Read Mar 13│

This book was so unapologetically feminist, I loved it.

The Dream Thieves│The Raven Cycle #2│Maggie Stiefvater│📖🏳️‍🌈🔆🌹📖🌏│★★★★★│Read Mar 25│

I think I jumped into this book too quickly after finishing the first so it took me a while to get through it but I got there eventually.

Truly Devious│Truly Devious #1│Maureen Johnson│🎧│🏳️‍🌈💋🧠│🎧│🚫│DNF Mar 22│

I don’t think fiction audiobooks are for me! at least not ones I haven’t already read. I’m switching to Non-Fic/memoirs and I’ll try rereading a fave eventually to see how I go with that.

ive got this round.jpgI’ve Got This Round│Mamrie hart│🎧🎧│▶️

After realising ficiton audiobooks weren’t for me I needed a win so I returned Truly Devious for this because i love Mamrie and there’s no way I wouldn’t love this. I was right.

Skylarks│Karen Gregory│📥💚🏳️‍🌈📥🌏▶️

I’ve just been super invested in this one. I don’t know if it’s because i wasn’t reading it regularly since I normally read ARCs while I’m exercising…and I’ve not been exercising like at all this month. I don’t know. I’ll give it another go next month if I have time but otherwise it’ll probably be pushed back to May.

Rad Girls Can│Kate Schatz│📥💚🔆🚺│📥│▶️

I switched to this ARC since it’s only 112 pages and I figured SURELY I can finish this before the month is up. Nope. So April it is!

│Khutulun│tatterhood│Agnodice│Te Puea Herangi│Moremi Ajasoro│Sybil Ludington│Kurmanjan Datka│Andamana│Mary Seacole│Florence Nightingale│Gráinne “Grace O’Malley” Ni Mháille│Rejected Princesses│Jason Porath│📖🔆🌹🚺│✨▶️

│Empress Xi Ling Shi│Hatsheput│Agnodice│Trung Trӑc & Trung Nhi│Fatima Al-Fihri│Bygone Badass Broads│Mackenzi Lee│📖🔆🚺│⚡▶️

I didn’t do much but at least I got my entries read for both of these!

the female of the speciesBook of the Month

The Female of the Species│Mindy McGinnis│📖│🧠🌹🚺│📖🌏│💀│✅❌🚫▶️➡️🔄⏸│★★★★★│Read Mar 31│

Once I realised just how little I read this month and made myself power through this one and omg it was soooo good and worth it. I needed this book this month.

│Average Rating: 4.5★’s▶️ 5

Structured TBR Pass or Fail?

Must Read: ❌ 3/5│📥 0/1│📤 0/0│📖 2/2│🌏 3/3│✨ 10/10│⚡ 5/5│

Allowances: 📚 1/1│📲 1/1│📕 0/0│📗 0/0│🎧 0/1│

Clearly this was a terrible reading month. I got hardly any reading done. I started off relatively strong but then I stopped exercising (for reasons I’ll go into further later in this post) so that was less time spent reading. And then I spent far more time watching TV when I should have been reading because Depression. And the audiobook wasn’t really working out for me so I didn’t get that read either. FUN.

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Barbed Wire Heart│Tess Sharpe│📥💚🏳️‍🌈💋🔆🌹

I loved Far From You so when I saw this was available on Netgalley I knew I needed it! And it wasn’t even a request, just one you could immediately download and my international blogger heart is v. v. thankful.

vengeful villainsVicious│Villains #1│V.E. Schwab│📖

Vengeful│Villains #1│V.E. Schwab│📖♿️🚺

If you’ve been paying attention to my hauls sections you’re probably thinking “doesn’t Grey already have both of these books and the answer to that is yes absolutely but listen.

I have the paperback copy of Vicious in the old cover art because i bought it years ago…Well my mum bought it for me years ago but same same.

Then it was announced that with the long-awaited release of Vengeful we’d get all new cover art so I knew I’d be re-buying the first no matter what.

And then the collector’s edition came out for Vicious.

So I bought that and then Book Depository listed the hardback for Vengeful as a collector’s edition and so I ordered that as a birthday present to myself.

Only I don’t actually think it is a collector’s edition because it doesn’t say so on the cover or anything but oh well.

So I finally have both books with new covers only I don’t want to read them because if I do, I’ll want to annotate them and I don’t annotate collector’s edition as a rule for myself.

So I had to buy the paperbacks. I just had to. My hands were tied. Did I really have the money to? No, but I’ve had a hard month so fuck it.

Past Grey Reads

☁️ Book Review // Girl Made of Stars – I Am Broken

☁️ Grey Reads // Everything’s On Fire and I Couldn’t Be Happier – Girls of Paper and Fire

☁️ Grey Reads // Bloody Moors & Candy Castles – The Wayward Children 2 & 3

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Film & TV

Honestly I barely remember what I did actually watch.

Month’s TBW

The Bold Type│Season 2│✅│

Brooklyn Nine-Nine│Season 6│✅│

RuPaul’s Drag Race│Season 11│✅│

I Am The Night│Season 1│❌│

The Umbrella Academy│Season 1│❌│

Russian Doll│Season 1│✅│

Sex Education│Season 1│✅│

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The Bold Type│Season 2│📺│2017│💭 Sarah Watson│🌟 Katie Stevens, Aisha Dee, Meghann Fahy│★★★★★

This show is so fucking good, I’m not not so patiently waiting for the third season to come out next month!

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Brooklyn Nine-Nine│Season 6│📺│2013│💭 Daniel J. Goor, Michael Schur│🌟 Andre Braugher, Andy Samberg, Stephanie Beatriz│Watching weekly episodes│★★★★★│

The episode with the murder in the apartment and the making stupid promises to the mum and Jake slowly going crazy and Rosa with a different hair style every scene??? Iconic!

RuPaul’s Drag Race│Season 11│📺│2009│💭 RuPaul│🌟RuPaul, Michelle Visage│Watching weekly episodes│★★★★★│

Between Miss Vanjie being the narrator of the season (and maybe my fave of all time), her hoemance with Brooke Lyn Heights, Yvie’s take no shit, own your shit attitude and Plastique’s fish???? I am in love with this season.

I could do without Silky’s obnoxious everything and R. Kelly style Untucked breakdowns but whatever.

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Russian Doll│Season 1│📺│2019│💭  Leslye Headland, Natasha Lyonne, Amy Poehler│🌟 Natasha Lyonne, Charlie Barnett, Greta Lee│★★★★★

I am in love with Russian Doll and everything about it. It’s short, it’s smart, it’s quality TV and it’s fucking funny.

Sex Education│Season 1│📺│2019│💭 Laurie Nunn🌟 Asa Butterfield, Gillian Anderson, Emma Mackey│★★★★★

This show is stupid funny but it’s also super intelligent and important. This is such a good show for teens to have easy access to and I can’t wait for the new season.

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Queer Eye│Season 3│📺│2018│🌟 Bobby Berk, Karamo Brown, Tan France │★★★★★

This season had me crying my eyes out and I loved every second of it.

But my favourite moment is when Jody, on the first episode, comes out for the big reveal and the guys all lose their fucking minds! Especially Karamo’s and Antoni’s reactions. They were absolutely fucking gold.

Game of Thrones│Season 1│📺│2011│💭 David Benioff, D.B. Weiss│🌟 Emilia Clarke, Peter Dinklage, Kit Harington│★★★★

I mean, yes I am well aware of the problems Game of Thrones have and I am trash for it anyway. Is it as amazing as I initially thought?? Not at all but I’m in too deep now I can’t just not watch the final season.

So here I am re-watching the entire show with my mum to drag it out just a little longer and hopefully by the time we’re all caught up the final season, in it’s entirety, will be well and truly out.

I just have to try and avoid spoilers until then…which should actually be very easy because of something I’ll announce in my Month Ahead post.

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│YUNGBLUD│11 Minutes + Halsey│Loner│Falling Skies + Charlotte Lawrence│

│Dodie│Burned Out

│Troye Sivan + Lauv│i’m so tired…

│Noah Cyrus│Sadness│Good Cry

│Julia Michaels│Anxiety + Selena Gomez│Happy

│Steve Aoki│Waste It on Me + BTS

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Past Grey Watches

☁️ Grey Watches // I Hate It So Much I Love It – A Christmas Prince

☁️ Grey Watches // It Has To Be A Shit Show – A Christmas Prince: The Royal Wedding

☁️ Grey Watches // I Wanna Bone Jude Law and Kate Winslet – The Holiday

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Use Your Words Highlights

☁️ Grey Reads // Bloody Moors & Candy Castles – The Wayward Children 2 & 3

☁️ Top Ten Tuesday // Audible and Overdrive Are My Lords & Saviors – My Audiobook TBR

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Blogosphere Highlights


│Elise @ The Bookish ActressWhy I’m Not Honestly That Excited for Game of Thrones: Season EightEighteen Things I’ve Learned In My First Eighteen Years

│Krystin @ Here’s The Fucking TwistTrue Crime Tuesday: The Moors Murders


│Vicky @ Vicky Who ReadsStressed About College? These Book Recs Are For You!

│Ellyn @ Allonsythornraxxbooks5 TIPS ON ANNOTATING YOUR BOOKS!

│Marie @ Drizzle & Hurricane Books10 YA BOOKS DEALING WITH ANXIETY



│Aurora @ Aurora Librialis5 Book Quotes for International Women’s Day

│Swetlana @ The Caffeinated Bookworm Life6 Reasons To Watch On My Block

│Qui @ The Black Lit QueenDiversity vs. Representation|BLQ Quick Guide

│Madeline @ Caffeine & Writing DreamsHow to Write Scenes that Balance Plot & Character // Scene and Sequel Sequences

Past Month In Review

☁️ Month in Review // Christmas is Over Thank Fuck – December

☁️ January in Review // I Cried, Laughed, Ate Pasta, Celebrated My Birthday & Completed TWO Read-A-Thons/Challenges

☁️ Month in Review // I FINALLY CHANGED MY NAME – February

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Month’s Goals

☁️ Get my mental health plan

☁️ Book a therapy session I have to wait until April ahhhhhhhh

☁️ Get a massage from mum I just always forget okay

☁️ Try and take a mental health day

☁️ Try and take a mental health day later in the month

☁️ Keep my shit together —HAHAHAHAAHAHAHA

☁️ Start journaling —I will get to this eventually…

☁️ Quit soft drink 

☁️ Start floor exercises—I keep adding this and never get around to it. —I couldn’t even go for my walks for most of the month so…

☁️ Try and read 5 books —I can’t even say I tried

☁️ Don’t waste all my time on The Sims 

☁️ Go to Writers Week

Considering how shit this month was I count 7/12 goals reached a fucking accomplishment!

My Nightmare Month

So it started well enough. I went to Writers Week on two different days and thoroughly enjoyed myself! but then i got into a car accident on the way to my third day.

Which was stressful and anxiety inducing. It’s been a nightmare to work through all the aftermath. I didn’t know if the accident would be covered by insurance or if I would even hear from the person who hit me. And then when I did get the good news of being covered I basically had to micromanage the insurance company because they did everything slow and I couldn’t afford slow. So that was loads of phone calls which is something that causes me anxiety so YAY.

It’s mostly all sorted out. I still need to take my plates in and get a refund on my rego which I tried to do a couple days ago and got frustrated so that’s a task for another day.

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I did get to go to the Fringe Festival and see Daniel Sloss’s new comedy special which was absolutely brilliant! He talked about rape culture and really put the onus on men and how they need to work and go out of their way to think critically of themselves and society and what they can do to dismantle rape culture. I laughed and sobbed. My mum nearly pissed herself laughing and it was a great night out with to die for Sri-Lankan food hot buttered squid will blow your fucking mind! and I discovered that I like to drink Pimms.

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Throughout the month I’ve still been sorting out my name change because that is a long and drawn out process of changing my name everywhere and hitting road blocks constantly has be incredibly frustrating but I’m nearly finished!

I have also been doing all of this while in incredible pain because chronic illness.

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Basically my feet have been very painful, I knew the solution, doctor refused me, mum took me to a doctor who knows our history and I got the solution so I can actually start walking regularly again which will help my mental health loads.

My mum also took me to replace all of my shoes which was both expensive and needed so I have the best shoes for walking and working and running around doing errands and going out!

I was ready to end the month on a positive. Sure the start had rattled me a lot, and I was big depressed because of pain for most of it but I did have a few great experiences and I’d resolved almost all the long running issues.

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And then while I was waiting for mum to finish work a couple of days ago, I sat and read in the foodcourt.

A man approached me and invaded my personal space and stared at me, knowing it would make me uncomfortable, so uncomfortable that it distracted me from the fact he was trying to steal my purse.

Thankfully I noticed at the last minute and grabbed it back because I would have been a fucking mess if I had gone to all the trouble replacing everything in my purse with my new name on it, only to have to do it all over again because someone stole my it all.

The man walked off but I would be lying if I said it didn’t terrify me. The way he stared at me was so unnerving and I don’t handle people being in my personal space…like at all. Even people I know and trust have to always ask permission first. I don’t let men I know in my personal space at all because I know what men are capable of. But to have a man I don’t know get in my face with the purpose to make me uncomfortable, especially after the month I’ve had, was enough for me to completely come undone.

I’m thankful for the cleaner for checking up on me, even though I burst into tears, and I’m thankful for the girl who approached me after as well to try and be supportive.

She had fire in her eyes and in that moment I had wished that that was what I looked like instead of the girl I was, not being able to hold back tears and trying to keep calm in the middle of an anxiety attack.

More than anything, I’m thankful for my mum for being so supportive and understanding and being exactly what I needed her to be and for calling out the men who made things worse, while trying to help, when I didn’t have the strength to.

I’ve argued with myself on whether to share this and maybe I might delete it all before it gets published, but I think it’s important for women to share their experiences with how men have preyed upon them, whether sexually or not, and how men continue to use their power to get what they want from us, regardless of the negative impact it has on us.

I just—girls, women, know that if something like this happens to you, if something worse happens to you, it’s not your fault, it’s never your fault. The way you react to it is right because it’s your experience and your emotions. I’m trying to remind myself of that. 

And men, know that if you’re not actively trying to stop this shit from happening, aren’t pulling your friends up for those gross comments they make, then you’re part of the fucking problem. I don’t want to hear that you personally would never do this. That shit isn’t enough. It’s never been enough. This all lies at your feet and fuck you for helping to hold up a society that makes us think any of it is our own fault.

And if something like this happens to a girl or woman you know then ask her what she needs, ask her the best way for you to help. Because nine times out of ten the way you react naturally is going to be the complete fucking opposite of what she needs and you might make things worse. And that’s on you, not her.

Past Month Ahead

☁️ Month Ahead // Happy Birthday To Me + Hiatus Announcement – January

☁️ February Ahead // I’m Finally Going To Read The Raven Cycle Series & It’s Black History Month + A Great Resource for Education!!!!!

☁️ Month Ahead // Writers Week, Comedy & Too Much To Do – March

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Thank fuck March is over.

What did you do this month?
What did you read?
What did you watch?
What posts did you write that you’re super proud of?


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20 thoughts on “Month in Review // The Month From Hell – March

  1. Aww thank you for adding my post on your list!! Made my day!
    I’m glad to see that you focused on your mental health this month and I hope next month will be even better.
    Man, that story with the man seemed scary, I wouldn’t know what to do.
    I need to watch Russian Doll!!

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    1. Aw yay! I’m glad and you’re more than welcome!

      Thank you ☺️

      Yeah it was overwhelming to say the least

      It’s so good!!!! It would be a good show to binge since there’s not many eps and they’re only half hour ones


  2. I’m so sorry that March wasn’t a great month for you, I’m sending you all the positive vibes and love for this month ❤ ❤ ❤
    Thank you so, so much for sharing my post, that means a lot! ❤

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